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On 16/03/2024 at 13:56, MikeO said:
Disagree.
There are plenty of people who I could give a friendly slap to who I know would take it in the manner it's intended, doesn't everyone have mates/family/colleagues like that? But I wouldn't do it to my bank manager.
There's not one rule fits all.
We’ll have to agree to disagree then.
Context and the relationships of those involved are critical, but I’ve seen ‘friendly’ slaps many times and the always turn out badly for everyone.
My father (a bully) always thought it was hilarious to give out friendly slaps, and worse. It wasn’t, it was always the act of a bully trying to place himself as the big man. And it never worked out. And of course if anyone tried to do the same to him, that was always a disaster too.
The last time I saw something like this, it was in a work environment a few years ago. Someone (a woman actually, and also a bully) gave a friendly slap to a junior member of the team. Turned out there were others, and led to two years of complaints and misery where I work.
Even on the Undr The Cosh podcast, who like a bit of top bants, with hindsight admit that this behaviour is not on and you don’t know what other people’s mental health is or how they are taking it.
This behaviour never helps, is never a laugh and nearly always makes a situation worse, in my experience.
If it happened as reported, looks like it’s worked out really well for all those involved doesn’t it?
The only exception for this is the ‘I CANT BELIEVE YOUVE DONE THIS’ meme.
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If it is true, it’s unacceptable from Dyche. Putting or raising your hands on anyone, even as a joke is band out of order.
Regardless of who it is doing it, or the context. What possible good could have come of it. Clearly indicates that there are tensions in the squad, and between some players and the manager, and that it’s not just footballing reasons that Dyche doesn’t rate Patterson. If it happened.
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Could have been 4 legit pens today to them.
I can stomach losing, but I can't deal with the fact that we always find a way to balls everything up. Like we have Terry Fuckwits in every position on and off the pitch.
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stone cold pen.
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Just now, Btay said:
And Godfrey still remains…
He’s been better this half, as in totally anonymous and not ballsed anything up. TOUCHES WOOD.
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No idea what Tarks is complaining about there.
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1 minute ago, Elston Gunnn said:
Fair point. It’s as if they know they can’t shoot, and so try to dribble it into the net.
Or they are waiting to try and win the pen.
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Bournemouth and Fulham, and another poor team have come here this season and won. How hard have we made them work to get the points today?
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How many touches do we want in the box before attempting a shot?
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Something broke in this team, doesn’t seem to play for each other or the manager, for a good while now.
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McNeil wtf.
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Good grief. Just can’t buy a goal. Was Dom even switched on then?
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It looks like the good Gomes has turned up today. So far.
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Floated corner dogfart.
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no one what’s the confidence to take responsibility to have a dig in the box there.
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1 minute ago, Btay said:
Poor ball from Godfrey but the runs in the box were even worse there.
Then two more.
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Dyche losing his shit at the snail like pace and lack of ambition of our passing.
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Well I only saw the last 8 mins of the half but that was embarrassing.
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The 2 pens, were they deserved?
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Forgot this was the early game, wish I hadn’t remembered.
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6 hours ago, StevO said:
You fucking broke him. Thanks for that!!
He’s been crap since you posted this.It's not me, it's his face. I don't understand it. He's got a massive head covered in face, this sort of Easter Island head crossed with a 16th century Franciscan Monk. So blame that. He got an assist though yesterday, for which I will take full credit.
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1 minute ago, Hafnia said:
Not really. He made saves that you expect to see. We don't create enough quality chances or finish well enough so each miss feels bigger
I think he was MOTM. The pen goes in, or that McNeil chance and totally different game.
But we were wank and fell apart.
Sean Dyche
in General Everton Discussion
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Apart from my prick of an old man, I’ve been lucky and escaped this type of attention, I’m also quite big and can look after myself which helps. But it’s an issue that I’m pretty hot on, I’ll always call it out. I’ve seen it around me all too often and just make people and things miserable.
Lets hope this is something which has been blown out of proportion.