You're always on the defensive mate. Lighten up.
You said yourself that the lesbian thing brought up by Matt was irrelevant. At that point, I thought for a second you were proving to have more about you than I'd given you credit for, but then you go and blow it once again.
Chill.
I think I can bring plenty to the debate, as I'm the father of a beautiful daughter who is in a relationship with another beautiful woman, and has been for some years, and I'm fairly sure she isn't 'mentally ill' as you put it, nor the sort of person one would want to escape from, as Matt put it, and both make me proud every second of every day. It's sad that folk are unable to recognise perfectly wonderful and normal people without fantasizing about them in a movie, or thinking there is something wrong.
You weren't to know though, but a little insight and understanding is all it takes, to be a better person.